Are We Crazy By Nature?!

Some people may get on me about this...but if [YOU] become offended, it's probably because you fit the description of crazy. Sorry...I heard the realest answer from my brother this past week. (shout-out)...talking about female and male issues, I asked him in a fit of frustration:

I said: "WHY DO MEN ACT SILLY?!"

then he said: "Because y'all like it."

Wow. Isn't that the truth?? I told my homie that the only reason I can talk about females is because I have accepted my female irrationality and am working on a way to NEUTRALIZE that sucker like a relaxer baby. So my brother stated a fact: that every girl has a "little crazy" in them, so I then questioned whether or not we are crazy by nature or if [crazy] is experienced and then takes off from there. Is our irrationality implanted in us?? I concluded (somewhat) that it is natural for us to be attention driven early on, and control issues are apart of this. Not excluding men, because I will touch on y'all...

Here's the gift and the curse: Females are something like the "eyes" in life -- the good: our nurturing instincts come in handy in many ways. The bad -- our hands are in everything: gossip, girls, guys, life, work, etc. We express our frustration outwardly because it is expected and accepted for us to be unstable creatures. In certain situations, however, that expression may go awry; for example when unstable creatures place their hands on men. Like a zebra playing with a sleeping lion - no bueno baby. 

It's simple - Men are Math (THERE IS ALWAYS 1 ANSWER) and Women are English (OPEN ENDED ALL THE TIME)

In conclusion, I am still in the process of balancing my rational and irrational by nature characteristics but for now, I love being a girl because it gives a reason to be psycho...or do I? To the females, how do y'all balance your female [crazy] and your rational?

[You and that @*$&#! Mouth]

I didn't even write any randoms about myself smh...well this is one of those update blogs. Umm...lets see, three different people asked me my opinion about the "B" word; no, not Beyonce, but the other "B" word. It's got a few connotations attached on to it, none of which are acceptable. I believe the word is losing the power it once had however. Then again, words only possess the amount of power we put into it. Just like how it's acceptable for me to greet friends in calling them birds, hoe, whore, slut, ducks, freaky girls (lol) and so on. Eventually we become numb to words that our ears were once sensitive to because we are surrounded by it daily. 

I guess what I'm trying to say is: What is your favorite and least favorite "colorful" word?

Russ x Child Support

Child support...So there have been numerous reports where Simmons has been ordered to pay a cool $40,000/month in child support payments. Simmons responded:

"Nothing was ordered. My children have a fabulous life, they are exposed to a broad range of artistic and scholastic educational programs and I am very happy to contribute to that. As long as I have it, they can have it. If I ever don't have it, I'm coming to live with them."

Why are there so many child support cases and so much speculation about what the parent is doing with the money? Why aren't these funds set aside for future needs? Yeah, the questions go on and on about the financial aspect of child support...I leave here saying, do not forget that there is nothing more important than giving you child the lasting memory of life, which does not cost much except for time.

Mission: impossible??

Can men and women truly be friends who are attractive, without establishing the brother/sister relationship or being diagnosed with the best friend syndrome??

Brother/sister relationships are defined when each party deems each other as a family member to publicly confirm the relationship is purely non-sexual. This border shouldn't be crossed, I mean incest is kinda gross don't you agree? There are those cases of "kissin cousins"--okay, nvm. This is an exchange of limited range conversation; how else would you view your little sister/brother?

The best friend syndrome is when a male and female designate each other as bffs, automatically thrown in to the "friend zone". These conversations are those that you wouldn't normally share with the opposite sex like cramps or the last time you "got some". Your problems and issues are on the table and the person reciprocates with advice and a shoulder (aw) Basically, this is exchange of TMI.

My question is, can two people of the opposite sex, who are generally attractive truly be friends without establishing the family tie and bff sickness? Clearly this question has the ability to be answered, but not without the conditional add-ins.

who is your Tenzing Norgay?

Tenzing Norgay and Edmund Hillary were the first to climb Mount Everest in 1953. When they reached the top, Hillary went ahead so Norgay was technically "second" to set his feet atop the summit. Norgay stressed the unity of teams and basically was that helping hand that Hillary used to reach the top. Now, the real importance of the story is that Tenzing was that quality friend that came through in the time of need. So in your time of need, who was that person or people who are there for you? Maybe they hit you with a "it'll be okay" or a hug, a smile, words of kindnesss, a hand, a speech of encouragement or even just their presence...

who is your Tenzing Norgay??

Dear John/Jane

Dear [____],

You smell worst than sections 8, 9, and 10. I can't believe Ms. Johnson sat us together and that you had the audacity to write me a "Do You Like Me? Check Box YES or YES" note. Good luck with finishing this year as a 3rd year 4th grader.

                              Love, Bilaji (see picture above)

If you were to write a letter to someone or something with thoughts that you wanted to share, what would it say? Sometimes writing can help express how you feel better then face to face communication. Whether this letter be to your first love, hobby, friend, ex, family, it gives you the chance to spill your thoughts of ANY emotion. So what does your Dear John/Jane read?

*Mine is in the comments*

Random Facts Volume 2

1. I caught a case at Discovery Zone on my birthday and left the zone with a black eye
2. Looking at heating pads makes me nauseous
3. I know most of my friends parents and grandparent's names like Trevor, and his grandmother Leila who is a seamstress from Jamaica and his uncle Courtney who ONLY likes brown rice. Shout-Outs to Deryck, Heather, Peaches, Van, Raquel, Bernice, Myrna, Kareemah aka Big Bev, Grandma Lucy, Myron, Carol Anne, William the II, and any others I've missed
4. I strongly believe people who grew up in heavily populated Black and Hispanic locations have the ability to Double Dutch...very well.
5. I had a pair of black stretch pants with a black skirt attached to it like Tatyana Ali in her "Daydreaming" music video when I was younger.